I said I’d update after Mike’s appointment and I promise I meant to right away but……Christmas! Whew! What a busy and amazing and wonderful and blessed time of year….but….busy! 🙂
His appointment was A LOT. I had several questions, naturally. He had a few too….but he let me go first! (He is SO smart, y’all!) I had some small questions about his new meds and new diet and exercise….but my biggest, scariest, most important question was…..how likely are we to go through this again? I know there are no guarantees and that there are so many variables that are involved but I also know that many health conditions or episodes are likely to happen again once you have had them once. I wanted to be realistic and knew that the answer might be one I didn’t want to hear but I needed to know. She gave me the best answer EVER. Through a lot of technical reasons (lack of blockages in his other arteries, success of the stent, etc) and historical data….she says it is very likely that this could be an isolated incident! Of course, that all depends on him taking his meds correctly, exercising regularly, eating balanced meals, decreasing his stress and addressing his sleep apnea. That is a long list of things to do, yes…but I think he is more motivated than ever. He detests the thought of a C-PAP machine but he has promised to try it. (He’s been kicked out of the sleep lab before hahahahaaha – y’all he’s kinda hard headed and every machine he’s tried has not been a good fit for him.) He had just started to exercise more regularly and has an amazing friend that is willing and a such a blessing to us that he will help him in that area. The food is my area since I cook for him and he has promised to be more open-minded about trying different things (fruits and veggies are a big deal and he hates about 99% of them). He also has committed to taking a lunch every day and actually getting out of the office. His Dr has had several conversations about this with him and how important it is for him to take a brain break. He is also going in later than usual so he can sleep a bit longer and THAT is a blessing to me (and also is going to take some getting used to as that was a good thing for me to get up early and get my Bible time in…so I have to figure out how my day is structured when I get back home!). The hospital we use has a great cardiac rehab program that he will be taking advantage of and I am happy that he was open to that immediately. He already has an appointment with a sleep specialist so we are on our way to a healthier (and hopefully less dramatic) 2020!
We are currently in NC visiting our families and enjoying this season. It has been great to rest the last two days…since leading up to Christmas is a bit of a crazy time….and we have done just that. Mike is still a bit tired and the Dr says that is normal and expected. He played golf yesterday locally though and said he felt tired towards the end of the round but that he never felt “winded” as he would have normally. THAT is such a blessing to hear! I am telling you, God can make any situation GOOD. I am so thankful that Mike is feeling better, is heeding the warnings and is listening to the team that is caring for him.
Again, I cannot say enough thank yous to all of you who have been praying for him (and me too) so faithfully. We feel the love and we are so grateful.
I’ll update again in a bit once we have more information on the sleep apnea because I know that will make him feel so much better if he can get GOOD sleep!! Hope each of you had a Merry Christmas!!!